Guidelines for Risk Reduction in a Social Setting
What College Students Can Do to Prevent Sexual Violence
The Role of Alcohol
Residential, Driving, and Walking Risk Reduction
Drug Faciliated Sexaul Assault
Pledge for Action
Guidelines To Avoid Being Accused of Sexual Assault
Hold perpetrators responsible for their crimes! This is not an invitation to rape me
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GUIDELINES FOR RISK REDUCTION IN A SOCIAL SETTING
1. Be aware of what is happening around you. Stay alert. Don't become drunk or drugged.
2. Decide what you do and do not want to do before get together with a potential sexual partner. Think about how to communicate this to your date.
3. Communicate your limits firmly and directly. Don't assume that your date will automatically know how you feel, or will eventually "get the message" without you having to tell him/her. If you say "NO", say it like you mean it. Don't give mixed messages.
4. Act in a way that shows you value yourself. Respond assertively to any even minor acts of sexual harassment or disrespect. Do not allow others to violate your personal space.
5. Guard your drink at all times.
6. Do not allow yourself to be taken into secluded settings. Always arrange alternate transportation home in case you need it. Let others know where you are going.
7. Trust your instincts and get out of any situation that feels wrong.
8. Do not assume that someone who has been non-violent in the past will never be violent.
9. Don't be afraid of not being liked by someone who won't respect your feelings.
10. Use a buddy system to watch out for each other. Go home with the friends you went out with.
WHAT COLLEGE STUDENTS CAN DO TO PREVENT SEXUAL ASSAULT
Use peer pressure positively. Condemn rather than condone the behavior of a peer who is planning to or has tricked. pressured or forced someone into sex. Speak up.
Don’t excuse what people do when they are drunk or high. If it is wrong when they’re sober, then it is wrong when they’re drunk.
Get involved if you believe someone is at risk. If you see a person in a vulnerable situation at a party or a friend sexually coercing someone, don't be afraid to say something. You may save one friend from the trauma of sexual assault and another friend from the ordeal of criminal prosecution. Here are some tips for how to intervene safely
Hold the perpetrator accountable for his or her actions. Never blame the victim for the perpetrator’s decision to commit sexual assault . Don't excuse or minimize the perpetrator's actions.
Remember that any form of sexual contact without consent is against the law.
THE ROLE OF ALCOHOL
Alcohol use does not cause sexual assault. Most of us would never have sex without consent not matter how much alcohol we drank. Alcohol is used as a device to make people vulnerable and as an excuse for abusive behavior.
Drinking alcohol does not give someone the right to sexually assault you!
Drinking alcohol does not excuse you from sexual assaulting someone else!
Alcohol does put you at greater risk to be victimized. You are less able to assess risk and you react less quickly to danger. To protect yourself, keep alcohol use to a minimum, if at all.
If you have sex with someone who is too drunk to give consent it is a felony. If you have sex with someone without her/his clear consent, it is sexual assualt. Being under the influence of alcohol or other drugs does not excuse your behavior. You are legally and morally responsible for your behavior at all times.
Be aware of gender differences in the metabolism of alcohol. Women become more intoxicated than men on the same amount of alcohol, even when they weigh the same. This is because women have less muscle tissue which contains the body fluid that dilutes alcohol and because women's bodies more quickly process alcohol through the stomach and into the bloodstream.
Research has shown that women lack a stomach enzyme, alcohol dehydrogenase, which usually acts as a protective barrier and acts to break down the alcohol before it is absorbed. Without this enzyme, alcohol enters women's bloodstreams in a higher concentration. Alcoholic women have virtually none of this enzyme.
Women are less able to predict the effects of consuming a given amount of alcohol. Day-to-day variability in response to alcohol occurs due to the effects of the menstrual cycle. Greater susceptibility to alcohol's influence occurs just before menstruation.
The less a woman weighs, the longer it takes her body to be clear of alcohol.
The presence of birth control pills has also been shown to slow metabolism of alcohol.
As with many crimes and criminals, the perpetrator will base his attack on the element of opportunity, generally selecting a victim who appears to be vulnerable and alone at a given time and place. Most perpetrators are known by the victim and may even be an intimate partner. Many assaults are not spur-of-the-moment decisions but have been planned ahead of time.
RESIDENTIAL RISK REDUCTION
TO AVOID BEING ACCUSED OF SEXUAL ASSAULT
Always get consent and give respect.
1. Talk to your partner openly so you can both communicate your wishes and have no misunderstanding. If you aren’t comfortable talking openly about your sexual desires and limits, you are not ready to be sexual.
2. Always ask before you touch someone sexually.
3. Assume that "no" means NO. If you are right you have not offended your partner. If you are not, your partner can initiate more sexual contact.
4. Listen Carefully. Take the time to hear what your date is saying. Be sensitive to that person's feelings. If you feel your date is not being direct or is giving you a "mixed message", ask for a clarification.
5. Don't make assumptions about your date's behavior. Don't automatically assume that someone wants to have sex just because she/he drinks heavily, dresses provocatively, or agrees to go to your room. Don't assume that just because someone has had sex with you previously she/he is willing to have sex with you again. Also don't assume that just because your date consents to kissing or other sexual intimacies, she/he is willing to have sexual intercourse.
6. Don't feel as if you always have to initiate sexual activity. Don't initiate if you don't want to. You don’t have to prove your sexuality.
7. Don’t have sex with someone who is drugged, intoxicated, passed out, incapable of saying "NO", or unaware of what is happening around her/him. That is sexual assault. Getting someone drunk is not the same as getting her/his permission. Be aware that having sex with someone who is mentally or physically incapable of giving consent is against the law.
8. If you have to pressure your date or get your date intoxicated to do it, don’t do it. Submission is not consent. Consent is active and not passive. Any sexual contact without consent is considered sexual assault in Wisconsin.
9. Do not exploit or sexually harass others with humor, threats or embarrassing comments.
10. Be especially careful in group situations. Be prepared to resist pressure from friends to participate in violent sexual acts or gang up on an individual.
Remember that just because someone doesn’t want to have sex with you, that doesn’t mean there is something wrong with you or that the other person isn’t attracted to you. There can be many reasons for not wanting to have sex. Sex is a very intimate act that can involve medical and emotional risk.
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